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Staying Sharp: tips help preserve your memory

Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Is staying sharp a casualty of aging? Many of us have had the experience of forgetting where we left our car keys or difficulty recalling someone’s phone number.  Sometimes these incidents can just be annoying, and may be due to fatigue or stress. It may be easy to think that as we get older, remembering even simple things like a phone number will fall by the wayside.  However, there is plenty of research to support the notion that losing one’s brain power does not have to be inevitable.  Here are a few simple steps for staying sharp that may yield remarkable results:

Tips for Staying Sharp

Exercise As You Are Able: Although it is well known that physical exercise is important for the health of the body, it also helps keep our brains sharp. Two studies presented at the 2011 Alzheimer’s Association International Conference in Paris added to the growing body of research suggesting that exercise can help protect your brain against mental decline. In fact, researchers from the Conference found that a brisk 30-minute daily walk can delay mental aging by five to seven years! If walking is too difficult, try doing breathing and “chair” exercises which can also be tremendously beneficial. Staying sharp means staying fit.

Stimulate Your Brain: The more you use your brain, the stronger and more agile it will be. Crossword puzzles, reading about new topics, or learning a new skill are great ways to keep your mind sharp. This also holds true when it comes to social activities. Staying sharp is helped by quality time spent with friends and loved ones, which can be wonderful for brain health as it often reduces stress and depression.

staying sharp means eating wellEat a Healthier Diet: Eating a diet of fresh fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins provides your brain with the vitamins and amino acids it needs to stay healthy. Eating a healthy diet also reduces the risk of high blood pressure, diabetes and other health conditions that contribute to cognitive decline. Staying sharp can be delicious!

Try to Stay More Organized: It is hard to stay focused in a cluttered space. Donate items you don’t need, send junk mail directly to the recycling bin, and file bills and receipts as soon as you are done with them. Many people find it helpful to write appointments on a calendar and maintain a to-do list. You may even sense a boost in confidence as you start to check things off the list! Staying sharp might mean simplifying.

Find Ways to Give Back: Volunteering offers opportunities to meet new people and learn new skills.  However, giving back can also provide a sense of purpose which, in turn, can improve overall mental health. Why not celebrate Volunteer Appreciation Week (April 22-26) by getting involved in a community project or reaching out to a neighbor who could use a helping hand?

For more insights about brain health and staying sharp, take a look at the Dana Foundation’s website at www.dana.org.

Staying sharp mentally as we age may be a challenge, but hopefully this article, first published in AARP Maine’s The Maine Point,  has introduced you to some of the things we can all do to help keep our brains focused and our memories intact.

Jane Margesson, AARP Maine Communications Director

Micmac Indians in Maine: elders remember

Wednesday, May 15th, 2013

Rev. Catherine Sabine M. Ed, L.M., CH, Commissioned Healer and National Spiritualist Teacher from  the Micmac Indians tribe, was the featured speaker  recently at USM’s Lewiston/Auburn Senior College “Food for Thought” luncheon.  She spoke about the conflicts of being a Micmac Indian child living in a white community.

Rev. Catherine Sabine is a tribal elder of the Micmac indians in MaineThere was an ongoing effort to assimilate Native Americans. This resulted in her Micmac culture becoming socially invisible. This continued until November 26, 1991, when the Aroostook Band of Micmac Indians became Federally recognized. She is their tribal elder. She is a former tribal councilor and a former Big Cove First Nation Sun dancer. She continues to be a pipe carrier.

Micmac Indians in Portland

Her father, whose languages were Micmac and French, was born and raised at Eel River Bar First Nation, in New Brunswick, Canada. He crossed over on the Foot Bridge in Caribou in 1920. Her mother, who was Franco-American (she denied being half Micmac,) was born in Waterville and French was her only language. They settled in Portland’s East Deering section. When other Canadian relatives arrived, they too settled in Portland, forming a small Indian community.

Rev. Catherine Sabine is the founder, president, and pastor of the Spiritualist Church of Eternal Life, in Sabattus. She graduated from Pennsylvania State University. She earned a  Master’s Degree in Education in the Native American Leadership program. She is a retired Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, and Marriage and Family Therapist.

Senior College, now in its 14th year, presents the monthly 11:30 luncheon program in Function Room 170 at USM Lewiston/Auburn Center. The LA Center is on Westminster Street in Lewiston. The cost, which includes lunch, is $7 with advance reservation or $8 at the door. Call 753-6510 for information about the month’s speaker, or to make reservations.

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Spring Cleaning: 4 tips for decluttering

Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

I’m thrilled that it’s time for springtime gardening, says guest columnist Dianne Fazio.  Spring cleaning? Not so much.

This annual spring cleaning ritual comes with a mixture of dread and delight. We dread starting it, and delight at the clean, pristine surfaces afterward. It’s not easy to keep horizontal surfaces free and clear of clutter. I have one chair that’s not really for sitting; it’s a temporary place to drop things for a minute. Or longer.

Clutter disturbs our peace, weighs us down and makes us feel grumpy, which in turn affects our relationships. You can’t fool yourself by stuffing it all in the closet. It’s one case where out of sight is not out of mind.

Lack of organization costs us precious time. Too often, I’ve been ready to leave for an appointment but have to dash upstairs for my shoes. Do you have to go through a stack of DVDs or CDs (minus their cases) before enjoying music or a movie? If you still search high and low for your car keys every other day, it’s time to organize. Of course we have endless excuses for avoiding cleaning up and clearing out. Here are just a few.

“It’s too valuable to let go. It’s worth a lot.”

spring cleaning goes faster if you decide to make vintage items functional

Spring cleaning goes faster if you decide to make vintage items functional.

If the possessions are indeed of high value, why are they out of sight in a box? Take the photo of your dad in uniform and his treasured pocket knife out of that box in the garage and display them on a shelf in your den. Give the remaining souvenirs to family members. Sentimental value is sweet, but if you have ten boxes more than you have room for, it’s time to send them on a sentimental journey—to the local charity, where someone else can enjoy them. What about the china Memère gave you 30 years ago? If it’s been hidden all that time, consider keeping just one beautiful tea cup and saucer in view as a reminder of her gentle and generous ways. Spring cleaning is a great time to review and remove.

I bet you have suits you haven’t worn in ten years or more. Or a high-end mixer you never use. Just because they cost a fortune is no excuse to keep them.

“I might need it someday”

Erma Bombeck said, “Thanks to my mother, not a single cardboard box has found its way back into society. We receive gifts in boxes from stores that went out of business twenty years ago.” Sound familiar? We save far too many things, “just in case.” Start by ridding yourself of the bulky items, like the recliner in the family room that wobbles, and the table you bought with plans of refinishing. If you think you’ll get back to an article in that stack of magazines, you’re kidding yourself. And hopefully by now, you know that a collection of National Geographics magazines is neither rare nor desirable. In fact, during your spring cleaning run to the recyling center, don’t be tempted to add to your collection!

“It’s not mine.”

Bruce Williams, financial advisor on the radio during the 80’s, had a brilliant plan for making an attic full of boxes disappear. He stuffed $50 bills among the books and contents of the boxes belonging to his grown children. The reward was tantalizing enough for them to take action. If you’ve been providing storage for your brother Bill since he moved back to Maine five years ago, it’s time to (very kindly) set a reasonable deadline and if he doesn’t show, haul it to the dump (excuse me, the transfer station). Don’t let his storage issues hinder your spring cleaning!

“It’s not a problem; it just bothers my wife.”

It’s true that one person’s junk is another’s treasure. I consider most of what my dear husband saves junk, while my things, of course, are treasures; we can laugh about it. If someone you care about fails to see that the sheer volume of their possessions is interfering with their life, you should contact a professional with an expertise in hoarding.

The word is used lightly and often in jest, but it’s no joke for those who struggle with hoarding. The person finds it impossible to organize and arrange items as a true collection and your attempt to help will create undue stress for both of you.

You have options with spring cleaning

If you’d rather pick rocks than tackle spring cleaning, cheer up. My friend Dot avoids the chore by doing just one room each month. You might hire a cleaning company like Merry Maids. For organizing or downsizing your home, hire a professional organizer to help, at least until you have a plan that you can follow through with.

Vow to make your home a comfortable and peaceful retreat from the worries of the world. Keep only those things that serve a functional purpose and that are beautiful and that make you happy. May your spring cleaning bring you joy!

by Dianne Fazio, owner of A New Day Senior Options, and a certified senior advisor who helps aging adults and their families access the best local resources for their needs. She also provides home downsizing and organizing, Mid-to-Southern Maine. Let her motivate your spring cleaning! www.ANewDayMaine.com

Migratory Bird Act: Happy 100 Years

Monday, March 4th, 2013

I’m celebrating the Weeks-McLean Law, passed 100 years ago today, commonly referred to as the Migratory Bird Act. Today, I’m also celebrating what would have been my dad’s 86th birthday. Malcolm Dennison McLean, this one’s for you.

The Migratory Bird Act, passed in 1913, makes it illegal to kill or transport migratory birds for their feathers or any other reason. Imperiled snowy egrets, whose feathers were used to decorate lady’s hats in the period after the Civil War, were the poster birds for the Weeks-McLean Law, but they weren’t alone. In 1886, there were 50 different species of birds in the US being slaughtered for their feathers for the hat trade.

Migratory bird Act snowy egretWhat connection does my dad have with birds and the Migratory Bird Act? His wider connection, as a forester, was with the great outdoors. But on top of that, he was an eminently sensible man. He wouldn’t see the benefit in leaving nests full of baby egrets to starve, even if their mom’s feathers brought lots of money. He didn’t like waste or vanity. He enjoyed nature right where it was, outside.

My dad was a hunter, but only of what he could eat. And that changed. When we were kids, we enjoyed many a woodcock pie. (Woodcocks are elusive little game birds. Game birds are not covered by the Migratory Bird Act.) When dad noticed that the early spring didn’t bring as many whistling displays, he stopped hunting woodcock. He didn’t hunt harder, to get the last few birds. He changed.

Change came to the plume trade in the form of irate ladies of wealth. It took about 17 years for two Boston cousins, Harriet Hemenway and Minna Hall, to lead the boycotts and protests of feathered hats. They were reformed fashion icons themselves, as members of Boston’s upper crust, and the club they formed to protect birds was called the Massachusetts Audubon Society. Audubon societys sprang up in many other states around the urgent need to protect birds from the plume trade.

Weeks-McLean Law, Migratory Bird ActIt’s amazing to think that 100 years ago, people had the courage to stand up to London and New York businesses that were making fortunes in feathers, and insist that the traffic stop. They did that both by law and by fashion, by making the wearing of feathers a careless and vulgar expression of tasteless vanity. They didn’t wait until every single egret was slaughtered.

Happy birthday, Migratory Bird Act. Happy birthday, Weeks-McLean Law. The world is a much better place because people saw something they didn’t like, and took action. And happy birthday, Mac McLean. You brought an interest in nature and the outside to our family that is going strong in the third generation.

Ricky Nelson Remembered: music at the Merrill Auditorium

Thursday, February 21st, 2013

I was pretty excited the other day when the promoter of Ricky Nelson Remembered asked me to tell area seniors about the show at the Merrill Auditorium April 5. Ricky Nelson Remembered is a music/video/multi-media extravaganza starring Gunnar and Matthew Nelson, Ricky Nelson’s twin sons. They are 46 now, no longer rocking long blond hair, but they sound great.

Ricky Nelson RememberedThe promotor has given Maine Senior Guide readers a code for $5 off Ricky Nelson Remembered tickets. You can use the code word GARDEN to receive the $5 off discount on tickets purchased online, via phone, or in person. Port Tix is the box office for Merrill Auditorium, and the Ricky Nelson Remembered tickets are $40-$55. Don’t be fooled by ticket offerings on other websites that charge hundreds of dollars per ticket. That’s crazy talk!

We have orchestra seats for the Ricky Nelson Remembered concert that we’re giving away as part of the Spring Senior Expo March 20, 2013, at St. Max Hall, Black Point Road in Scarborough. If you loved Ricky Nelson, come on out to the Expo. We have two tickets in the grand door prize basket, and two tickets as booth give-aways at the Maine Senior Guide booth.

I loved Ricky Nelson, even though I was pretty young when the show went off the air, in the mid-60s. As he became a bigger recording star, he was allowed to add more music to his family’s Tv show, so every second or third show would have Ricky Nelson showing off a somewhat innocent rock ‘n roll song.

The Adventures of Ozzie & Harriet was just one of a long list of family-based sitcoms, but this family was real. Ozzie Nelson had been a big band leader in the 40′s, while Harriet was a singer. They started out as radio performers with the Ozzie and Harriet Show, and eventually segued into television when Rocky was 12 in 1952. The Adventures of Ozzie & Harriet went on to become one of the longest running sitcoms on TV.

The show at the Merrill Auditorium Friday, April 5, Ricky Nelson Remembered, is by his sons, who were 18 when Ricky was killed in a plane crash on New Year’s Eve in 1985 , at the age of 45. Gunnar and Matthew Nelson are older now than their dad was when he died, but proof that rock lives on.

Ricky Nelson Remembered

Gunnar and Matthew Nelson on stage with                            Ricky Nelson Remembered

 

Senior Gifts: making fun senior gifts

Thursday, December 13th, 2012

Senior gifts can be difficult to come by when your loved one seems to have it all. Making your senior gifts useful, not just decorative, can be a key to successful senior gifts and presents.

senior gifts can include home-made presentsSo make stuff for your senior gifts. If you’re handy in the shop, a book holder or playing card holder, nicely finished and supplied with large face cards or a new novel, would make wonderful senior gifts. You can find ideas and patterns on-line.  Make cookies, bread and rolls or soup and freeze them in appropriate-sized portions. Home made food makes splendid gifts for seniors.

Simplicity has patterns for a number of senior items, from aprons and wheelchair robes to walker bags. It would be a fun event if you supplied a gift box including a pattern and a selection of fabrics, and arranged to bring a portable sewing machine and spend an afternoon with your senior, putting together these simple necessities as a custom gift.

Senior Gifts Can Solve A Problem

Think about helpful senior gifts that solve a problem. If your loved one is hard of hearing or spends time focused on the TV or computer, there are flashing doorbells and phone flashers/amplifiers. Choosing and installing products can ahve a realy positive long term benefit. How about a portable phone that can move easily from room to room? Senior gifts that are functional can be especially good choices.

Do you have a senior who really needs to declutter or downsize? Take photos of pieces of furniture or treasures that need to go. Often, seniors can part with the item if they have an image that triggers the good memories. Senior gifts can include creating a “memory picture book” of dad’s old sweater, the cookbooks from 30 years ago, or a beat up chair that used to hold all the kids.

Don’t forget the cozy sheepskin slip-ons (with a good non-skid bottom), lightweight fleece tops and bottoms, or even a lightweight fleece hat to wear around the house. Easy, washable layers should be somewhat tailored fitting, however, to avoid tripping, catching on doorknobs or coming in contact with hot burners.

Finally, given senior gifts that honor your loved one and recognize their community interests. Gifts to Habitat for Humanity in your area, the Heifer Project or a Kiva account are wonderful. Heifer Project gifts are wonderful senior gifts for farmers, folks who raised chickens or rabbits, bee keepers and foresters. Kiva allows the recipient to invest (in $25 increments) in entrepreneurial project all around the world, with frequent updates.

Giving thoughtful gifts with a generous spirit means so much more than a generous wallet. Check out gifts for seniors for more ideas! Merry Christmas and happy holidays!

Veterans Day 2012: thanks, Vets!

Thursday, November 8th, 2012

Veterans Day is approaching this weekend.  How many ways can we thank our vets? Hopefully, everyone thanked them on Tuesday by going to the polls and voting, one of our rights in a democracy that many of our vets died to preserve.

Veterans Day WWI Victory MedalVeterans Day actually honors vets from 100 years ago. World War I – known at the time as “The Great War” – officially ended when the Treaty of Versailles was signed on June 28, 1919, in the Palace of Versailles outside the town of Versailles, France. However, fighting ceased seven months earlier when an armistice, or temporary cessation of hostilities, between the Allied nations and Germany went into effect on the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month. For that reason, November 11, 1918, is generally regarded as the end of “the war to end all wars.”

Of course, it didn’t end all wars. But it did bring us an opportunity to thank the men and women who served around the world. You’ll find Veterans Day sales abounding this weekend. AARP has an offer that will save vets and their famlies money all year long. You can take the AARP Veterans Safe Driving Course for free (or half price on-line) which will give you great discounts on your car insurance.

Thanks, Grandfather! I’m displaying your WWI Victory Medal, given to those who fought in France.

 

 

Marian Robinson: FGOTUS Gets Her Wish

Wednesday, November 7th, 2012

We have re-elected Barack Obama as POTUS. President Obama hails Michelle Obama (FLOTUS) as his rock and guiding light. Who does Michelle hail? FGOTUS Marian Robinson.

Robinson is Michelle’s mother, and the First Grandmother of the United States. Marian got her wish: to have her son-in-law re-elected to continue his work as President. A recent interview in Essence magazine stated:

Marian Robinson FGOTUS

44th President Barack Obama, daughters Sasha and Malia, First Lady Michelle Obama, and First Grandmother of the United States Marian Robinson.

“I admire how hard Barack works. And I know that he does it because he wants to make sure that this country is still a place where you can make it if you try. He wants to make sure that a college education is affordable and attainable so that all parents can encourage their kids to reach for it, just like Fraser and I did. He wants to make sure that moms and dads can provide for their families, and folks my age can retire with dignity and security. And he wants every child to believe that they can achieve their dreams, no matter where they come from, what they look like or how much money their parents make. That’s what makes him work so hard. I’ve seen it from him and I’ve heard it from him. And that’s why I’ll be voting for him in November, and I hope you do, too.”

The First Grandmother came to DC to help raise Malia and Sasha, the Obama girls. Now 13 and 11, they are growing rapidly into young ladies with their own lives. Will FGOTUS stay on for a second term? In the first months of the first term, there was discussion that Marian was in DC to help the girls get settled and take some of the parenting burden off the shoulders of the First Couple, and that she would eventually return to her home in Chicago.

But who wouldn’t want the help of extended family in raising kids? Raising teenagers is even harder, and Marian isn’t the first grandparent to take a very active role in family matters. According to the government, in 2010, 4.9 million children (7% of kids under age 18) lived in families headed by grandparents.

Mrs. Robinson, a retired bank secretary, is the first live-in grandmother since the 1950’s. She has another child, her son Craig, who is head basketball coach at Oregon. Mrs. Robinson has been quite a retiring FGOTUS, but the next four years may bring her out of her shell as navigates the teenage years with her grand-daughters.  Power up, FGOTUS! We’re wishing you well!

Memorial Day: The American Flag Through the Eyes of a Veteran

Friday, May 25th, 2012

by Nadine Grosso, republished from the Maine Health Care Association.

This week, I had the absolute privilege to take my favorite veteran and grandfather, Ken Brown, to a Memorial Day ceremony hosted at the Freeport Community Library. My grandfather, 90, is a World War II Army veteran who fought in the Battle of the Bulge as a member of the 106th Infantry division. My grandfather was a recent guest on the Conversations with Ed Bonney show, moderated by Bonney and filmed by Freeport Cable TV Director Rick Simard. The program shares the war time experiences of local veterans. The library hosted a Memorial Day celebration public screening of a compilation of Ed and Rick’s work, following hundreds of hours of interviews with my grandfather, and fellow Freeport residents Arthur Cooper, Martin Bailey, and Ed Fogg.

Nadine Grosso and grandfather, veteran Ken Brown, celebrate Memorial Day My grandfather not only fought in the Battle, but was captured by the Germans in December 1944. At the time of capture, he recalls the German army surrounding them and knowing what would ensue. After marching some 25 miles in horrible weather conditions, the Germans crammed my grandfather and his comrades into the so-called “40 and 8” box cars, designed to carry 40 soldiers or 8 horses. My grandfather will tell you there were many more than 40 soldiers with him that day.

The train took them to Bad-Orb, Germany where they arrived at Stalag IXB prison camp on Christmas Eve, 1944. Stalag IX B was situated on a hill and it was where he spent the next month of his life. He and other prisoners were then transferred to Stalag IX A for almost another three months.

I don’t feel the need to go into detail about his experiences as a Prisoner of War. I think we all have an understanding of how terrifying and life changing it was for all who endured captivity. But I do want to share that you could have heard a pin drop, and actually saw tears well up in many eyes, as he recalled seeing the American Flag coming up the hillside.

In his own words, my grandfather says, “Finally, on March 30, 1945, we were liberated by the 6th Armored Division. Just imagine how we felt seeing those jeeps with American Flags waving. After three months, 22 days and 5 hours, we were finally freed.”

As I looked at the American Flag in the library, I found myself trying to visualize what that must have looked and felt like to the young men, many of whom thought that liberation day would never come. I realized then it is through the eyes of a veteran that one can truly behold the American Flag and all that it symbolizes. I, for one, will always remember my grandfather when I see Old Glory flying high.

As you mark Memorial Day in your facilities this weekend, I will also think of your residents and all who have served and sacrificed for the very freedom we enjoy today.

With a heart full of respect,

Nadine

Art and Alzheimers: new program fosters creativity

Wednesday, March 28th, 2012

Studies have shown that art therapy might be particularly beneficial for people with Alzheimer’s disease because though they gradually lose the ability to express themselves with words, other parts of their brain that deal with colors and composition can still be used and developed. Even people with advanced Alzheimer’s disease can continue to create art.

Cape Memory Care in Cape Elizabeth recently started art classes in the Art is 4 Every1® method, developed by Elaine Griffith of Massachusetts during the nearly 25 years she taught at nursing homes, senior centers, kids camps and in her studio. It is a method that breaks the painting process into small steps, as tiny and as simplified as is needed according to the ability and experience of the student.

Pat Moshimer,  Maine’s only certified Art is 4 Every1 instructor, brings her program into Cape Memory Care in Cape Elizabeth every week. As Cape Memory Care residents, right, participate in the weekly Art is 4 Every1® class, they practice small motor control, visualization and perspective just as artists without memory impairment do. Pat has been a scribe and illustrator for 30 years in the Kennebunk/Kennebunkport area. Arts for Everyone art class at Cape Memory Care, Cape Elizabeth, Maine

Pat’s students remain remarkably creative and the painting program gives them an outlet for communication in a different and often very vibrant way. Is there an art show in the works? Will there be plein air classes as the weather improves?  To find out more about this program, please call Olga Gross-Balzano or Bri Johnston at Cape Memory Care, 207-553-9616 or e-mail olgagross@woodlandsalf.com.